Can Darkness can be attractive to light warriors? Makes me wonder is it fearlessness or is it familiarity?
Is it stepping out off comfort zone or stepping into it? Some of us need a storm to feel safe! Conflict seem familiar territory. Trouble feels home.
We don’t see things as they are we see things as we are. Perhaps, knowing your own darkness makes it easy to deal with darkness in others. Perhaps accepting yourself helps accepting others easier.
Those triggers in close interaction and all that pain help us to understand those un-loveable parts of us that shows up during the conflicts. Those might be opportunities to relate better. Growth lies in owning up those dark parts of self that are so difficult to accept. In learning to be our own friend, we learn to befriend others. So, I ponder, your darkness might be an opportunity for me to grow, while my darkness can be a trigger to your journey of self awareness. So, it is for us to see….. Where do we go now?
Musings - An Endeavour to writing 